Actor Bae Do-hwan brought up his past wounds that prevented him from having a relationship.
On Channel A 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which aired on the 29th, Bae Do-hwan, a 60th-year-old bachelor actor, and his mother Han Woong-ja appeared.
Bae Do-hwan said he was 'Geumsapa' style, and there was an entertainment show with a concept that sent me to marry him. If you meet 12 women and meet a good person, you should get married. I fell in love with the first person and got married in two months. However, they separated in 15 days after using separate rooms in three days. I broke up my marriage in three months." Then, when asked about the female style you want, "Oh Eun-young's style is good." He is soft, smiles well and has a gentle face. It's okay if it's the other way around with your mom."
My mother's No. 0 wish was to send her son to his wife. My mother hopes that the marriage will not be over this year. He said to his son 'Isn't it because he didn't try hard?' and 'Other friends have children and have fun, but how old are you when you're going to go?' Bae Do-hwan complained that his mother's nagging bothered him, saying, `I don't want to be told to get married.'
Park Na-rae said "My younger brother is married. I'm also 40 years old, so my parents say, "When are you going to get married?" My mother sympathized with Bae Do-hwan's situation, saying 'Go once and come back'
Looking at the daily life of Bae Do-hwan's mother and son, the mother ended the conversation with a story of "Marriage" no matter what she said. Dr. Oh told his 83-year-old mother Bae Do-hwan "You have to withdraw when you need to take out and write information stored in your brain, and the cerebrum that plays that role becomes rigid when it ages. It is filled with rigid beliefs rather than a change of thought. It's hard to notice nonverbal expressions, too," he said, interpreting why the mother and son's conversation is a turning point. The mother acknowledged this, but said "If my son gets married, this will all go away."
On the other hand, Bae Do-hwan said he would give up the dash immediately if the other person did not respond. Then "I was told that there was no emotion of reason when expressing favor." I was miserable then. If you block out your rational feelings, it makes me sad every time we meet." and Dr. Oh slapped his knee, saying, "This is why you can't date." Then "People have a sense of romance. I usually notice whether the other person likes me as a reason or as a colleague, and Bae Do-hwan pointed out that "I don't notice." be tactless."
Bae Do-hwan brought out his past wounds, saying "There is trauma in a woman." He "Actually, I was slapped by my father for bringing a woman home. It was when I was in high school. She has been a female friend since elementary school. I was alone, but my father came in early that day. My father looked at me and slapped me in front of my friend. The shock was great." Then "Since then, I have become against my father. Maybe it's because of the memory of being hit, but when I see women, I start to panic because I think of them then." Dr. Oh said "I must have felt humiliated" and defined it as an sexual relationship as if even my friend had acted negatively. There must have been a sense of shame that I couldn't say it wasn't," he said.
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