Son Dam-bi "父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die." (With my dad)

Aug 15, 2024

Son Dam-bi '父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die.' (With my dad)
grew up unloved," but she was so angry at the moment that she slapped her face saying 'You're so bad, can't you only say that?'"

Son Dam-bi then said "I didn't think marriage was important in my life when I looked at my parents. I wasn't going to get married when I saw my dad's quiet and blunt appearance."

Son Dam-bi "I had a lot of thoughts after my father died. It's a pity that I can't talk to my dad and make memories. Since my mom is alive, I want to do something I haven't done before when I'm with her. I want to make good memories with my mom," he added.

Son Dam-bi '父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die.' (With my dad)
In response, Son Dam-bi decided to go on her first trip to the Han River with her mother Lee In-sook and expressed her excitement by packing lunch boxes together.

Upon arriving at the Han River Park, Son Dam-bi looked at her father and daughter riding the swing and said, "I was always alone. Dad and mom never pushed the swing and rode the seesaw together. Since I have a lot of time to play alone in my memory, why don't they take care of me?', 'Why aren't you playing with me?I thought that it was left unattended", he confessed, "It was hard at a young age."

In response, his mother Lee In-sook said, "I'll push the swing once."I should have pushed him when he was six or seven years old.." bemoaned.

Son Dam-bi, who first rode a swing that my mother gave me a ride, is a day to relieve my anger. Thank you."My mom pushed me when I was forty-two years old," he said, expressing his happiness.

Son Dam-bi '父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die.' (With my dad)
Son Dam-bi '父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die.' (With my dad)
The two then headed to the bench to eat. When Lee In-sook, the mother who brought her own lunch box with Yubu sushi, said, "I think it's been 40 to 50 years since I brought my lunch box like this." Son Dam-bi said, "Didn't I go around when I was young?"I wondered.

In response, Lee In-sook "There are not many. I didn't go there. When you were small, you only went around a little when you were a baby." Son Dam-bi showed a picture of her childhood on her cell phone.

Son Dam-bi, who saw herself as a child, said "She looks so much like her mother when she was a child. I was in high school," he exclaimed.

Then, when he saw himself hugging his father, he couldn't take his eyes off for a long time, saying, "Dad gave me a hug," and "Dad gave me a lot of hugs when I was young."

Son Dam-bi '父, who didn't have an exchange, collapsed when he was 20 years old..I have no memories until I die.' (With my dad)
Son Dam-bi revealed the family history of having to become the head of the family from the age of 20 on behalf of her father who suffered a stroke through an interview.

Son Dam-bi "I remember (about my dad) from elementary to high school. Because we lived together. He was so blunt, he didn't talk to me, he was angry a lot, and he was very assertive. I never talked to my dad"From the age of 20, I was a trainee, so I couldn't see him anymore because I lived in the dorm. From the age of 20, (the exchange) was completely cut off."

Then "When I was 20, my father collapsed. You couldn't talk more because you were in the hospital. So in my memory, my memory of my dad feels like '0'."

Son Dam-bi also said, "I didn't think I had any marriage or babies in my life, but as my life changed, I started to focus on that life. As a result, I thought about my parents once more. 'What was Dad like to me?'Ra' responded.

Then "I didn't know my dad would actually die so fast. It's sad, but it wasn't to that extent. Because I don't have any memories."

Then he said "'I carried you around a lot at the time." Oh, you should have told me. It's too bad. I don't remember it. I think I would have remembered it by myself if I had told you. Still, I'm glad I found out at least now."

Afterwards, Son Dam-bi turned to her mother and said, `You have to do today's finale. You have to take a cruise"I headed to the cruise ship dock with my mother. Son Dam-bi, who bought food for the seagulls, said "Mom, I don't like seagulls. Mom, give it to me. Mom, stay still. I'm scared of my mom," he said in a childish manner. At this time, Son Dam-bi drew laughter from the seagull poop.

Son Dam-bi "Honestly, that's the most memorable thing. I wonder if I can make such memories. The seagull that made us good memories. Now we have memories, too."

Son Dambi's mother Lee In-sook also said, `I don't think I can sleep today. I felt better. I've never been to a place like this, and I've never done this with my daughter. What's the point of regretting the past. I think today is the first step," he said, expressing anticipation.



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