'Fried food while holding the child's arms' Lee Ji-hoon ♥ Ayane "Parental qualifications made me cry. Don't force the child to appear." (Full Story)
Sep 30, 2024
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Ayane posted on his SNS on the 30th that `I was not going to mention it, but I couldn't because I couldn't. First of all, I hope that my poor language skills do not cause any misunderstanding in expression or speech because I am a foreigner and Korean is a second language" began a lengthy article with a request.
Ayane "There was a cooking scene on YouTube that we posted last week. There, comments about the danger of babies became a hot topic (?) as articles were published. He mentioned 'Controversy over safety insensitivity'.
And "What we did wrong is that no matter how much the child cries and graces, he should not have come around the hot fire, and no matter how much Ji-hoon is used to hug, he should not have let his guard down for a moment and hugged with one hand. We also thought we should be more careful in the future after reading the comments you posted after watching the video again, and we reflected a lot."
However, Ayane explained about the situation at the time "The child stayed in the kitchen for about 10 minutes between two hours of cooking, and at first he lay away from the kitchen and began to cry, and because it was not easily soothing, there were moments when his father entered the kitchen while hugging for a while. My child was in a situation of more than two months at the time of filming, and I think it is the time when neck strength and body development have begun to some extent. It's not that I don't know what to hold my child, but I don't like to hug him to the side, so I can't stop crying and feel secure when I hold him. I held him like that when I had no choice", he explained.
"Of course, just because it's about 10 minutes, there's no law that a child doesn't have an accident just because it's been two months, so I'm really grateful for those who told me to worry and be careful," he said. "However, there were many comments such as not being qualified as a parent or making personal attacks beyond worries." As you can see from the beginning to the end of the video, I didn't hold it all the time with one hand, but other times and I held it properly with my neck."
Ayane "While my child was resting on his chest in a state of helplessness because he was asleep, I was working or holding him with one hand several times in the process of helping me, which is something we should have been more careful about. Also, if you look closely at the video even when frying, my brother told me to be careful with my hands and fell back before putting the vegetables, and came up after seeing that the oil did not fry. After hearing your opinions, I knew I had to be more careful in the future."
It hurts us, too, to say that we are not caring for our child with love, with the harsh criticism comments that go beyond our concerns. Anyone who has raised a child knows that every parent values their child over my life, and my husband is also a parent of a person before he is a celebrity, so would I put content before my child. I hope you know that the reason I held Lu-hee for a while was not to show her on the video, but to soothe her for a while, and that I had no intention of forcing a sleeping child to appear. There was also a comment that said she felt sorry for Lu-hee. My child has never had a scratch on his face except for Taeyeol, and he is taking care of and taking care of him so well that he does not have a diaper rash once," he stressed.
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On this day, Ayane prepared dango and fried vegetables, and Lee Ji-hoon helped his wife next to him. When her daughter Lu-hee, who woke up at that time, whined, Lee Ji-hoon headed to the kitchen holding Lu-hee.
Eventually, the three of us, including Lu-hee, got ready to cook together. Ayane fried eggplants and sweet potatoes, and Lee Ji-hoon helped Ayane by holding her daughter.
Fries were successful, but Lee Ji-hoon's appearance was criticized for his daughter's safety, such as touching a hot frying pan with one arm or receiving hot water. Also, the appearance of her daughter asleep with her neck bent added to her anxiety.
As the controversy continued, Lee Ji-hoon eventually said on the 29th "Thank you for your concern. I'll be careful and careful," he apologized.
Meanwhile, Lee Ji-hoon married his Japanese wife, Ayane Miura, in 2021, and the couple held their first daughter in their arms in July.
The following is the full text of Ayane's entrance statement
I wasn't going to mention it, but I'm posting it because I can't!
First of all, I hope that my poor language skills do not cause any misunderstanding in expression or speech because I am a foreigner and Korean is a second language. Please recognize that it's written by a foreigner and read it^^
There was a cooking scene on YouTube that we posted last week. There, comments about the dangers of babies became an article and became a hot topic.
The first thing we did wrong was that no matter how much the child cried and snuggled, he should not have come near the hot fire, and no matter how much Jihoon is used to hug, he should have let his guard down for a moment and hugged with one hand. We also thought we should be more careful in the future after reading the comments you posted after watching the video again, and we reflected a lot, right??
But to give you a supplementary explanation
- The child stayed in the kitchen for about 10 minutes between two hours of cooking
, At first, I was lying away from the kitchen and started crying, and there were moments when my dad came into the kitchen hugging me for a while because I couldn't soothe him easily.
-My child was in a situation of more than two months at the time of filming, and I thought it was the time when his neck strength and body development began to some extent.
-It's not because I don't know what to hold, but I don't like my child to the side, so I cry and when I hold him, I can't stop crying. When I have no choice, I hold him like that.
Of course, there is no way that a child will not have an accident just because it's been about 10 minutes, so I'm really grateful to those who told me to worry and be careful.
However, there were many comments that said they were not qualified as parents or made personal attacks beyond worries.
As you can see from the beginning to the end of the video, I didn't hold it all the time with one hand, but other times, I also gave my neck well and held it properly.
While my child is resting on his chest in a sleep-deprived state, I have been working or holding him in one hand several times in the process of helping me, and this is something we should have been more careful about!
Also, if you look closely at the video even when frying, my brother told me to be careful with my hands, and I fell back before putting the vegetables, and came up after seeing that the oil didn't fry.
After listening to your opinions, I knew I had to be more careful in the future!
However, it hurts us to say that we are not caring for our child with love, with the harsh criticism comments that go beyond our worries. If you've raised a child, you know that every parent values their child over my life, and my husband is a parent to a person before he's a celebrity, so do you think I should put content before my child?
Never!!!!?
I want you to know that holding Luhee for a while was not to show her on the video, but to soothe her for a while, and I didn't have any intention of forcing a sleeping child to appear!
There's also a comment that said I feel sorry for Luhee. My child has never had a scratch on his face except for a fever, and he has never had a diaper rash (and of course, even if I take good care of it, I have children)ㅠ) I'm raising, taking care of, and taking care of them with all my heart.
If I don't mention it like this, even if it's a little pointed, I'm posting it on Instagram because I'm afraid my baby will be misunderstood as a 'Poor kid whose parents don't care'.
Lu-hee is growing up well and healthy with so much love from her family ♥?♥?
But I think it's different to worry about and criticize, whether it's a parent, a friend, or an acquaintance. Whether it's breastfeeding, powdered milk, socks, hats, cool or hot, everything is a parent's choice and the responsibility will come with it.
But some parents intentionally cool the room to catch a cold, and some parents intentionally heat the room to make it hot for their children??? I don't think there will be such a mom or dad. That's the same for us.
As the two of us are still immature and lacking parents, there are many things to be careful about and learn, but please know that our love for Lu-hee is true and leave comments with concern and affection rather than criticism. Also, I would appreciate it if you could understand that the video does not fully convey the actual situation you were in at that time. ???
Thank you for leaving comments because you're worried about Luhee.
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