'Lee Jihoon ♥'Ayane 'Interested and insufficient as a parent' (Full Story)
Sep 30, 2024
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On the 30th, Ayane said in his personal account, `The first thing we did wrong was that no matter how much the child cried and acted, he should not have come near the hot fire, and (Lee) Ji-hoon should not have let his guard down even for a moment and hugged him with one hand, no matter how much he was used to hugging him.' `We also thought that we should be more careful in the future after reading the comments you posted after watching the video again," he wrote.
The child then stayed in the kitchen for about 10 minutes between two hours of cooking, and there were moments when his father came into the kitchen hugging him for a while because he was lying away from the kitchen at first and started crying"It's not that I don't know what I'm holding because I don't know, but I don't like my child to be on the side, so I cry when I stand up and hug him, so I don't stop crying, so I hold him like that when I can't help it."
"While my child was sleeping and leaning on his chest, I was working or holding him with one hand several times in the process of helping me, which is something we should have been more careful about," he said. "When I was frying, he told me to be careful with my hands and fell back before putting the vegetables down, and came to me after seeing that the oil didn't fry."," he added.
Finally, Ayane said, `As the two of us are still immature and lacking parents, there are many things to be careful about and learn, but please know that our love for Lu-hee is true and leave a comment with concern and affection rather than criticism. Also, I would appreciate it if you could understand that the video does not fully convey the actual situation at that time," he said.
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In the released video, the two challenged to make food for Obong (お盆), a Japanese holiday, and started to prepare ingredients together in the kitchen. However, during the cooking process, her daughter woke up, and Lee Ji-hoon came into the kitchen with her daughter in her arms and fried her in oil. He also made viewers nervous by holding his daughter in one hand and helping her with kitchen work. Netizens who saw this pointed out the couple's insensitivity to safety, saying "The baby looks too dangerous" "Burning is largely due to parental carelessness". As the controversy continued, Lee Ji-hoon "Thank you for your concern. I'll be careful and careful", he apologized.
Meanwhile, Lee Ji-hoon and Ayane overcame the 14-year age gap, got married in 2021, and held their first daughter in July.
Hereinafter, the full text of Ayane's SNS.
I wasn't going to mention it, but I'm posting it because I can't!
First of all, I hope that my poor language skills do not cause any misunderstanding in expression or speech because I am a foreigner and Korean is a second language. Please recognize that it's written by a foreigner and read it^^
There was a cooking scene on YouTube that we posted last week. There, comments about the dangers of babies became an article and became a hot topic.
The first thing we did wrong was that no matter how much the child cried and snuggled, he should not have come near the hot fire, and no matter how much Jihoon is used to hug, he should have let his guard down for a moment and hugged with one hand. We also thought we should be more careful in the future after reading the comments you posted after watching the video again, and we reflected a lot.
However, to give you a little bit of a supplementary explanation, the child stayed in the kitchen for about 10 minutes between two hours of cooking, and there were moments when his father entered the kitchen hugging him for a while because he was lying away from the kitchen at first and then started crying.
My child was in a situation of more than two months at the time of filming, and I thought it was the time when his neck strength and body development began to some extent. It's not because I don't know what to hold, but I don't like my child to the side, so I cry and when I hold him, I can't stop crying. When I have no choice, I hold him like that.
Of course, there is no way that a child will not have an accident just because it's been about 10 minutes, so I'm really grateful to those who told me to worry and be careful.
However, there were many comments that said they were not qualified as parents or made personal attacks beyond worries.
As you can see from the beginning to the end of the video, I didn't hold it all the time with one hand, but other times, I also gave my neck well and held it properly.
While my child is resting on his chest in a sleep-deprived state, I have been working or holding him in one hand several times in the process of helping me, and this is something we should have been more careful about!
Also, if you look closely at the video even when frying, my brother told me to be careful with my hands, and I fell back before putting the vegetables, and came up after seeing that the oil didn't fry.
After listening to your opinions, I knew I had to be more careful in the future!
However, it hurts us to say that we are not caring for our child with love, with the harsh criticism comments that go beyond our worries. If you've raised a child, you know that every parent values their child over my life, and my husband is a parent to a person before he's a celebrity, so do you think I should put content before my child? Never!!!!
I want you to know that holding Luhee for a while was not to show her on the video, but to soothe her for a while, and I didn't have any intention of forcing a sleeping child to appear!
There's also a comment that said I feel sorry for Luhee. My child has never had a scratch on his face except for a fever, and he has never had a diaper rash (and of course, even if I take good care of it, I have children)ㅠ) We are raising, taking care of, and taking care of them.
If I don't mention it like this, even if it's a little pointed, I'm posting it on Instagram because I'm afraid my baby will be misunderstood as a 'Poor kid whose parents don't care'.
Lu-hee is growing up well and healthy with so much love from her family ♥?♥?
But I think it's different to worry about and criticize, whether it's a parent, a friend, or an acquaintance. Whether it's breastfeeding, powdered milk, socks, hats, cool or hot, everything is a parent's choice and the responsibility will come with it.
But some parents purposely cool the room to catch a cold, and some parents purposely heat the room to make it hot for their children? There won't be such a mom or dad. That's the same for us.
As the two of us are still immature and lacking parents, there are many things to be careful about and learn, but please know that our love for Lu-hee is true and leave comments with concern and affection rather than criticism. Also, I would appreciate it if you could understand that the video does not fully convey the actual situation at that time.
Thank you for leaving comments worrying about Luhee
antahn22@sportschosun.com
