Park Narae's daughter who drinks too much even after 3 vocal cord surgeries, worries about making a mistake. (Golden Counseling Center)
Sep 19, 2024
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Channel A 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which is scheduled to air at 8:10 p.m. today (19th), will be visited by Park Na-rae and her mother, Ko Myung-sook, as the first runners of handmade counseling.
In the broadcast on this day, her mother Ko Myung-sook informs her about her recent status as a Mokpo celebrity thanks to her daughter, a representative star of Mokpo. But a lot of attention is burdensome. Sometimes he says 'Auntie Narae'`````````````. MC Jeong Hyeong-don then asks his mother if Park Na-rae has ever introduced her ex-boyfriend, who has often told stories of her ex-boyfriend. His mother Ko Myung-sook confesses her unexpected feelings, saying, `I've introduced him twice, but I thought I was losing my daughter, so everyone opposed it.' Park Na-rae, who was puzzled by this, said "My mother has been urging me to marry since I was in my early 30s, but I don't know what she's thinking."
On this day, Park Na-rae and Ko Myung-sook's mother and daughter "It's awkward when we're together, mother and daughter who are wary of each other."I talk about my anti-war concerns. "I don't feel close or affectionate with my daughter."The mother Ko Myung-sook confesses that she has never traveled alone with her daughter and that it would be awkward if they went together. The mother's visit to the bookstore to present a book to her daughter is then revealed. The mother, Ko Myung-sook, suddenly calls to ask how her daughter is doing, but the phone call between the two is cut off in about 20 seconds, adding to the seriousness of her worries. In response, Ko Myung-sook expressed her upset feelings, saying, `I don't know why I'm not so close to my daughter.'
However, Park Na-rae refutes, saying, `On the contrary, my mother feels distant from me.' Even if she plans to travel alone, she calls other friends and even hears that she is coming to Seoul from a close junior, not her mother.
After confirming the mother and daughter's concerns, Dr. Oh Eun-young sharply points out the relationship between the two, saying, `It seems difficult for a mother to have a single conversation with her daughter.' Mothers and daughters, who are generally close, then explain that they do it without purpose when they go out to eat shaved ice or call a dessert cafe alone. In response, Park Na-rae says "I've never been to a cafe alone, and I have nothing to say even if I contact you without purpose, so I only listen to my mother's worries and nagging." Even when he won the Entertainment Grand Prize, he complains that he was nagged by his mother, saying, `You received a big award, so be more humble and always be careful to match the award.' "Whenever my mother sends me side dishes, I send her a book, and there are three books called "Titan's Wisdom"."`I don't know what wisdom you want from me.'
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young explains that "a mother's way of expressing love is advice and advice" and adds that "when advice to her daughter does not seem to be well taken, she seems to change her method and send a book.' He then advises that "the daughter should know that the essence of what a mother does is love.""
In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-young looks at the results of a circle-centered familyization test conducted in advance to find out what mother and daughter think of each other. Park Na-rae puts herself at the center and draws a similar distance between her mother and grandmother "Feeling an emotionally similar intimacy", while her mother Ko Myung-sook draws Park Na-rae, her daughter, at the top and without herself. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young explains "There is a side that finds it difficult for a successful daughter, and the mother's mind is full of worries and sacrifices for her child."
Park Na-rae then recalls the love and sacrifice she received from her mother when she was unknown. Ko Myung-sook, a mother who had been worried that her daughter would not be able to appear on the show for a long time, packed food and greeted the news that the filming team of the then national program "1 Night 2 Days" was coming to Mokpo, and confessed that her calm mother even made a joke. Park Na-rae went on to say, "I felt like I was putting stress on my mom because I wasn't successful"He expresses his gratitude for his mother's love and his upset at the time.
Meanwhile, his mother Ko Myung-sook can't stop worrying, saying, `I drink too much even after three holy-band surgeries, and I'm worried that my daughter will make mistakes while drinking alcohol.' In addition, "If I had a husband, I would have been able to share this concern with my husband, but the only person I can talk to is my daughter.", expressing regret, "To the extent that I know from the broadcast that my daughter didn't tell me a hard story at all."
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young continues in-depth counseling to find out why her daughter cannot rely on her mother and does not reveal her inner feelings. Then, Park Na-rae reveals that she became independent from her first year of high school to go to art high school. In response, mother Ko Myung-sook said, "In fact, she opposed her daughter's early independence, but the reason she did not oppose it much is because she laughed at her daughter's appearance and revealed that she thought she would not be able to go to art high school."
Meanwhile, Park Na-rae shed tears that she did not see her mother's struggles properly because of my dream, saying that she tried to quit school when her father passed away when she was in her first year of high school, but her mother said, `I will let you go to school somehow.' Dr. Oh Eun-young, who saw the mother and daughter who were worried about each other but could not express their inner feelings, provided special advice for the two mother and daughter, and Park Na-rae and Ko Myung-sook, mother and daughter, shared their inner feelings on the spot and showed a 180-degree change through counseling.
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