'Insulate the parents and children out of revenge' lamented Jeong Dae-se, Myung Seo-hyun, who was depressed by his mother-in-law's verbal abuse (HAN I-Gyeol)
Oct 14, 2024
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In MBN 'Determined to divorce at least once' (hereinafter 'Han Gyeol'), which aired on the 13th, Jeong Dae-se and Myung Seo-hyun visited a psychiatrist for 11 years of marriage and talked about their marital relationship, which was separated by the conflict between their fathers and daughters, and were then shown receiving a solution.
In addition, Robert Harley (Hail in Korean) and Myung Hyun-sook visited the office of a divorce lawyer and wrote a 'virtual divorce agreement', but Myung Hyun-sook, who couldn't sign the seal, had more time to agonize. In the process, Myung Seo-hyun was still struggling despite being offered a smart solution, and Myung Hyun-sook also showed mixed feelings with her husband's image of stamping on 'divorce document' without hesitation, arousing viewers' sympathy with reality. Reflecting this, the broadcast recorded a 2.4% viewer rating (second part of paid broadcasting) according to Nielsen Korea's tally, and the highest viewer rating per minute jumped to 2.8%, reflecting the hot interest of the home turf.
Earlier, Myung Seo-hyun raised her voice with her husband while talking about the past when she had to take medicine for depression due to her harsh marriage in Japan. In a flashpoint, Myung Seo-hyun's mother-in-law recommended his son-in-law "Let's go get some fresh air", and Jeong Dae-se, who went on a walk, confessed "I actually felt lonely while living with my wife-in-law".
The father-in-law suggested drinking alone for the first time, saying, `Let's just have makgeolli.' While drinking makgeolli, Jeong Dae-se "It was hard because my parents fought a lot when I was young""Seohyun is preventing me as well as the children from going to my parents' house because of the conflict between her husband and his wife." At some point, I think the day will come when I end up with Seohyun."
Surprised by his son-in-law's remarks, the father-in-law listened silently, while reading "I hope you will solve it wisely through dialogue." Jeong Dae-se was relieved that `I'm grateful that you just listened to my story.' After returning home, Jeong Dae-se showed more effort by having a drinking party of reconciliation with his wife.
The next day, Jung Dae-se and Myung Seo-hyun visited Lee Kwang-min, a psychiatrist. For the first time, I started counseling the couple, and first of all, Myung Seo-hyun confessed in '1:1 Personal Counseling' that he even took medicine for depression due to his mother-in-law's aggressive remarks, and that he hurt my parents by mentioning them.
Then "I told my husband what had happened (with my mother-in-law), and the shocked husband cleaned up my relationship with my in-laws.", he explained. Jeong Dae-se, who was watching his wife's personal counseling in the studio, said "My mother was also bullied at her father's home. So you have a sense of victimization, he added, and then apologized, saying, `I should have sided with my wife sooner.'
However, in a private consultation, Jeong said, "It seems that my wife is trying to cut off her relationship with the children because of her revenge (for living in-laws). It seems that they don't send their children to their parents' homes and think of their children as their property. I was afraid that if I get divorced like this, I won't be able to meet my children."
In a consultation in which the two participated side by side immediately afterwards, Myung Seo-hyun said "The word in-laws" is a lifelong wound. I don't want to send the children to such places." Jeong Dae-se said, `I live with my parents and I am good to them, but I am not doing my best," he said, expressing his disappointment.
The specialist who listened to both sides' positions said "Seohyun, it seems that her mother-in-law has difficulty expressing healthy emotions, so please understand more." In addition, the relationship between Mr. Dae-soo and his mother is a thousand times, so he should be acknowledged. I hope the relationship between children and grandmothers will also be respected so that they can judge. However, I think it would be appropriate to leave the relationship between the mother-in-law and Seo-hyun at a distance.
In the meantime, "Seohyun has a tendency to perfectionism, so she tries to fit everyone into the frame she designed. However, the more you do, the less likely you will feel obligated to support your family, as well as to lean on your wife to settle down. If you liquidate your family-in-law's house and separate your house, there will be many things to be desired, but there will be a role of Mr. Dae-su. In the end, what remains at the end is the couple,' he said, suggesting a specific solution.
At the end of the consultation, Jung Dae-se said "I'm at ease," while Myung Seo-hyun showed a damaged self-esteem, "I'm at a loss". In the end, Myung Seo-hyun visited his colleagues when he was a flight attendant and vented, and returned home late at night. When his wife came back late without answering his phone, Jeong asked "Let's talk", but Myung Seo-hyun entered the room with a cold expression, "Let's talk tomorrow".
Amid tension again, Robert Harley and Myung Hyun-sook visited a lawyer specializing in divorce Roh Jong-eon for Virtual Divorce.
First of all, in 1:1 personal counseling, Harley runs a foreign school like his wife, and after five years ago 'That incident', the school became young and I was also very sick, so my wife and sons suffered. Thank you so much, but I don't think there's any other way out of this situation than divorce."
However, lawyer Noh Jong-eon embarrassed Harley by saying, `Under the civil law, a liable spouse cannot claim a divorce first.' After a while, Myung Hyun-sook also had a personal consultation with lawyer Noh Jong-eon. At this time, Myung Hyun-sook said "Is divorce the best way? I'm afraid my children will be hurt by my parents' divorceUnlike her husband, she expressed her hesitation to divorce.
After consultation, the two finally accepted the 'virtual divorce agreement'. Harley quickly stamped the document, but Myung Hyun-sook said she was disappointed at her husband's appearance, but she said, `I'll think about it more.'." After returning home, the two try to divorce their sons " he said.
The two sons "Why do we have to come now..."I stopped him, but Harley said "I'm unhappy with this family. He did not break his insistence, saying, "I have to divorce to make everyone comfortable." Nevertheless, the two sons persuaded Harley by saying, "'You can't always have good things in your life.'" The second son, in particular, told his mother, who has been troubled ever since, "Choose (divorce or not) for happiness, but I hope you don't regret it later."," he said warmly. My son's affection made Myung Hyun-sook cry. The couple's story will continue on MBN 'Determined to divorce at least once', which airs at 10 p.m. on the 20th (Sunday).
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