"Mother, retirement ceremony sacrifice" vs"In-laws are hell" Jung Dae-se ♥ Myung Seo-hyun Extreme conflict sobbing (Han Yi-gyeol)

Oct 21, 2024

'Mother, retirement ceremony sacrifice' vs'In-laws are hell' Jung Dae-se ♥ Myung Seo-hyun Extreme conflict sobbing (Han Yi-gyeol)



"Because of my mother-in-law and wife, I couldn't even call my mother, who took care of me for 30 years, to my retirement." vs"In-laws' life in Japan is dead and living hell"

The marital conflict between soccer player Jung Dae-se and Myung Seo-hyun and his wife exploded.

On the same day, Jung said, "There was pressure from my mother-in-law and wife behind my early retirement," adding, "I couldn't take care of my mother for 30 years because of the conflict between my mother-in-law and her husband at the retirement ceremony." On the other hand, his wife fiercely opposed Jeong Dae-se, who mentioned that she wanted to live in Nagoya, her Japanese in-laws, saying, `That's hell for me.'



In MBN 'Decision to Divorce at least once', which aired on the 20th, Jeong Dae-se belatedly confessed that the decision to retire a soccer player was due to the pressure of his wife and mother-in-law, and argued with his wife Myung Seo-hyun again.

After returning from marital counseling due to severe conflict between the husband and the wife, Jeong Dae-se and Myung Seo-hyun expressed their sorrow to each other when the story of Jeong Dae-se's mother came out, although they tried to restore the relationship.



As a result of the marital counseling, Myung Seo-hyun, who was hurt by the conflict between the husband and the wife, was disturbed by the expert's advice that `it is right for the two children to meet their mother-in-law,' and eventually ran out of the house.

Myung Seo-hyun, who arrived at midnight without being able to contact him all day, turned a blind eye to Jeong Dae-se, who waited, saying, `Let's talk to sleep.' The next day, Jung Dae-se finally suspected his wife "Did you meet a man?"



Jung said "How many times have I called you, but you can't text me?"Myeong Seo-hyun pressed "I wasn't in the mood to talk to you yesterday, but I kept calling you. Can you please understand me?confront with " Myung Seo-hyun then said, "For 10 years, I've been watching your face as a soccer player.", and eventually wept while recalling the past when he was struggling to come to Japan alone.

Then, Jeong Dae-se "Seo-hyun is not the only one who is having a hard time. I've given up a lot, too," he said, bursting into regret that he had endured so far. Jung said "Actually, I wanted to play more as a player, but I decided to retire because of the invisible pressure of you and your mother-in-law."

He said "I wanted to keep playing football. Some teams still sing and others pay enough, but if you're going to do it, do it alone. It was so hard for two years because my wife's words, 'When my family goes back to Korea...' kept ringing in my mind"I quickly decided to retire under the pressure of my mother-in-law and wife who wanted to enter Korea"I explained the reason. "Japan has even the fifth and sixth divisions of the soccer league, so you can play soccer for a long time while receiving money," Jung said.

'Mother, retirement ceremony sacrifice' vs'In-laws are hell' Jung Dae-se ♥ Myung Seo-hyun Extreme conflict sobbing (Han Yi-gyeol)
After hearing this, the wife said, "My husband had a hard time for two years. That's why I said that to relieve my husband's burden as a head of the family, but I didn't even know he had that idea."

In the end, Jung Dae-se "On the day I retired as a player, I couldn't even call my mother. He cried, "My mother has been supporting me for 30 years, and I couldn't even say I was going to have a retirement ceremony." When Jeong Dae-se couldn't stop crying because of his guilt toward his mother, Myung Seo-hyun said, `Who told you not to call (mother)? You should've sung it?"It's unfair. Nevertheless, Jeong Dae-se "I couldn't call you because I was afraid of you." When the two meet, they look at each other, so how do we do the retirement ceremony?"

Psychiatrists "It is important for Jeong to listen to both sides of the heart. I'm not taking anyone's side, but what my wife wants is not to insult her mother-in-law. It's because of my husband's attitude toward my mother-in-law. To know your wife's heart aches. You have to tell your wife and call your mother for your retirement. Before that, you have to know the hard part of your wife."

'Mother, retirement ceremony sacrifice' vs'In-laws are hell' Jung Dae-se ♥ Myung Seo-hyun Extreme conflict sobbing (Han Yi-gyeol)
While trying to resolve the conflict with his wife, Jeong Dae-se mentioned his desire to live in Nagoya, where he lives, and his wife eventually "Do you want to break up with me?," he asked bluntly. My wife said "Nagoya is hell for me. I lived there dead all my marriage"I'm thrilled to hear only the song 'I' of Nagoya.", showing the end of the unresolved conflict.



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