"Which parent threw away my blood balls?""Choi Min-hwan Divorce"Yul-hee", crying at the criticism of "Child Abandoned"
Oct 23, 2024
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Yul-hee appeared on the TV Chosun Observation Entertainment Program 'Now Alone', which aired on the afternoon of the 22nd, and received a lot of attention for telling the story of having to give up custody of her three children from the process of divorcing her ex-husband Choi Min-hwan.
Yul-hee, who was a member of girl group La Boom, surprised everyone by marrying FT Island member Choi Min-hwan in 2018. At that time, Yul-hee was the youngest idol to marry at the age of 20. Since then, Yul-hee gave birth to her son Choi Jae-yul in May of that year, and later gave birth to twin daughters Choi A-yoon and Choi A-rin in February 2020. Yul-hee and Choi Min-hwan appeared on KBS2 'Living Men' from 2021 and seemed to have a blessed family, revealing their daily lives of parenting together, but they suddenly announced their divorce in December last year, shocking fans.
Above all, Yul-hee, who was disbanded for the first time in six years, drew attention after it was revealed that she gave up custody of her three children during the divorce process. At that time, Choi Min-hwan, the father, took custody considering the realistic problems and the psychological state of the children, and Yul-hee tried to fulfill her duty as a parent by continuing to meet with the children through interview negotiations. However, there was a lot of talk about the divorce between the two, and criticism against Yul-hee, who gave up custody, intensified. Yul-hee had to have a hard time when the frame was put on 'Heartless Mother Who Abandoned the Children'.
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Regarding early marriage, Yul-hee said "It was psychologically difficult except to debut at an age when she was not familiar with her social experience when she was young and to be on stage. I got a lot of comfort when I met my ex-husband"He explained why he got married when he was 20 years old.
Yulhee said, "I didn't bring up the divorce first```` ex-husband Choi Min-han`s demand for divorce. He agonized over divorce for about a year"It was so sudden because I didn't feel the crisis. I had many happy memories because I had no memories of feeling a crisis, but from the moment I learned about the crisis, I fell into hell alone. When the letter divorce first came up, I tried to overcome it thinking about my children, but it didn't go my way in the end. I thought I could overcome it because I loved each other and had children, but I felt that I couldn't overcome it in the end, and both of them had a deep goal at that time. I thought it would be a decision for each other, he confessed his feelings at the time.
I wanted to coordinate the reason for the divorce, but I couldn't find a coordination point and I couldn't overcome it even though I tried. It was hard then. Someone had no choice but to urgently consider divorce. I didn't think anything of it when I heard about the divorce. I just said 'Do it'" he confessed.
The friend, who was listening to Yul-hee's story, sympathized with Choi Min-hwan, saying, `I liked alcohol too much.' Yul-hee also said "I'm not good at drinking, but if I had drunk well from the beginning, would I have been able to drink and talk and enjoy together?"
Yulhee also confessed to the situation at the time when she suffered postpartum depression after becoming a mother. Recalling the days when she cried with her crying baby after giving birth to her first child, Yul-hee confessed "I didn't know at the time, but when I thought about it after giving birth to my second and third child, it was postpartum depression."
He didn't hide the appearance of visiting a reverse master to see a fortune teller with a friend. Above all, the reverse master is sensitive and picky enough to get hit by Yul-hee's fortune. However, he is smart, so he is quick to respond to and respond to situations. "I knew the man a little early, got pregnant and married. But marriage doesn't last long. Even if I stayed married and kept living, I would have been depressed and would have taken medication or gone to the psychiatry every day. I'm suffocating, so I'm going to get depression." Yul-hee also sympathized greatly with the reverse master's explanation.
Also, Yul-hee opened her mouth for the first time about why she gave up custody. "Which parent doesn't want to see my bloodballs and not live with me. 'How does a mother divorce her children?I thought ', but I wanted to grow up well in a better environment economically stable and realistically" and shed tears.
Yulhee lived in a large family, and the children were happy about it. In reality, the current house is a good environment. If three children and I find a house to live with and spend time in kindergarten working as if we were heading to the ground, he said he had to give up custody.
He also expressed his feelings for his ex-husband Choi Min-hwan. Yul-hee has washed away all hate. Now, if there are children's problems or work, I can contact them comfortably. Both of us seem to have washed away our hatred for each other. I hope it goes well and thank you for taking good care of the kids," he added.
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