Dirty blood..I got hit by a car. I was so frustrated..Oh Eun-young's depression is the highest ever (marriage hell)
Jan 07, 2025
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On the 6th, MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell' said that her son's childhood past was all dark, and her mother said she doesn't remember a single thing..The story of a black-and-white family unfolded.
The son said that the constant verbal abuse he heard from his mother in the past remained a trauma and still bothers him at the age of 34, and the mother claimed that she raised her child alone after the divorce and cared more than others and did her best.
My son read his mother's diary when he was in fourth grade. It said that she failed to abort her pregnancy and gave birth to me. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have lived like this. I felt like I was being denied my existence"It was a house where there were many fights because Dad and Mom did not get along well. I fought a lot because of money, and my father left the house because of my affair. My mom used abusive language on me when she was angry. I've been constantly told a lot of things that deny me. I knew it was hard to raise him alone, so I couldn't tell him then."
He said "When I was young, my goal was to join the school. I wanted to be recognized by my mom because I won first place in my class. But when I took the test on the day of the college entrance exam and said, `I think I failed the college entrance exam,' my mom said 'I'm not shy to see my relatives because of you. Go out and get hit by a car and die." Then "The hurt I got because of my mother made my social life difficult. My mom concluded that my life is a failure and said, 'Why are you blaming me for failing in your life?' After more than 30 years of being rude to my mom, I feel like it's sincere."
The son then suggested a family trip to get close to his remarried stepfather. I had a hard time with depression, but I tried to think of my mom, but I said I wanted to eventually cancel the trip due to ongoing friction while preparing for the trip. Then she got angry about the cost of canceling the accommodation and even told her that she went to the Han River Bridge and tried to put her extreme ideas into practice, but her reaction was cold. Desperate, 'Is 1 million won more wasteful than my life to cancel the accommodation?I asked ' and my mom answered 'Yes' and once again I felt hopeless. If I die and take out my organs and sell them, it will be more than 1 million won, so I told them to use it."
Mom thought she was intimidating by the sudden talk of life"I felt that the contact of my son, who said he wanted to die on the Han River bridge, was bothering me," he confessed.
In response, Oh Eun-young "My son's depression is very deep. "This is the best family I've ever seen." "My son is in so much pain that he wants to die, but my mother doesn't think it's a big deal if I say I don't remember." The depth of pain between mother and son is significantly different. Admit that my son is much more ill than I thought. Will my son get hurt??It hurts every time. Much of the wound is from my mother. Childhood memories are roots and pillars."
Then "Mother is a person whose legitimacy is too important. The mother's own legitimacy is so important in her relationship with her son.", he said, picking up the mother's lack of consensus and her characteristics.
The two, who seemed unable to get close, showed hope with one sincere heart for each other. The son is always concerned about his mother, who raised him alone as a child, and the mother also expressed herself differently and thought affectionately enough to give her life for her son.
Dr. Oh Eun-young asked her mother "If you don't know her son's feelings with a healing report. Instead, when speaking, he advised 'I'I'm'I'm' talk without this word'. To the son "Don't misunderstand the preciousness of being born. The mother eventually maintained her pregnancy despite the difficulties, and didn't she raise her son knowing how much responsibility she would have. Don't deny the preciousness of being born in itself."
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