Why are you shaking? 1st middle school students are angry at SOS-ignored smirking laughter (like gold)
Jan 10, 2025
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The second story of the middle school son who went into seclusion showing extreme aggression was revealed in the `Nowadays Parenting-My Little Child' that aired on the 10th.
On this day, the studio once again featured the mother of a middle school student with uncontrolled violence, who received a lot of attention after the broadcast. Mom ran into a problem in the process of working on the solution", he confessed his concern.
The gold side with the monitoring solution gushed at Yeo Sang, who showed his aggressive tendencies, saying "Hand it over before you break your finger." Eventually, the monitoring solution was stopped.
Dr. Oh Eun-young said "A self-objectification process is necessary. Personal awareness seems to have improved a bit. However, he expressed regret, saying, "If I had explained the reason for the monitoring in more detail, I would have accepted it more comfortably."
The mother then walked around alone outside and took pictures of where Geum lived and shared them with her child via video call. When a mother walking around the school playground market showed a video call, Geum-jeok also watched it quietly.
I challenged myself to go out for a walk with my mom. However, when that happened, he pretended to sleep and didn't wake up all day, and eventually his father, who kept persuading him, was relieved of his nagging control. As a result, Geum-jeok showed a strong aggression, saying, `Why are you shaking?'
On the other day, I tried to go out with my mom for the first time in four months. Mom, who wanted to go to the mart by car, led her opinion to Geum-jeok, who wanted a simple walk. In response, Geum-jeok angered his mother's ear, saying, `I'm going to kill you.'
After that, the gold side disappeared at dawn. He left his room and went out on his own at 5 a.m. Soon after, Geum-jeok came back home alone and lied down together on her mother's bed, acting silly.
When she didn't give her any compliments, she said "Let's overdo it a bit more" and regretted her response.
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Dr. Oh Eun-young explained that "the strength of a child is to keep what he or she said" and that "he went out in the early morning hours when he or she often doesn't meet people because he said he would go out on his or her own."
It is then a matter of respect for the mother's son's autonomy. The child wants to make his or her own choices and decide, but the mother should not lead from the beginning to the end of every solution" he advised.
After that, the father has time to talk with his mother. Dad said "My child contacted my mom three days after she was hospitalized, and she said 'I'm tired' and she laughed. He said he felt ignored and hurt himself. Why did you do that?" Mom said "I think I took it lightly at the time." Dad says, "My child is not in that condition right now, and even a normal child is playing SOS, but I think it would be too hurtful if my mother laughed at me", he pointed out.
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said "The mother's behavior is very inappropriate. I think there will be misunderstandings not only about my son but also in society"I'm trying to avoid uncomfortable feelings."
Mom laughs when she is too nervous or nervous. try to think positively"He said "They laughed so hard that people thought it was weird at the wedding." In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young "That's not a positive thing. You have to recognize and fix the problem on your own."
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Dr. Oh Eun-young said, `There are many things that children worry about too much or worry about too much. If you don't do well, you'll think you're a bad child, so your social standards are weak, he diagnosed.
It was difficult because there was no one who understood me while I was clueless. I'm always alone. I hate my mom who doesn't understand me."
Later, Geum-jeok gathered his courage little by little. He cut his shaggy hair at the hair salon and met his long-lost friend again, moving toward the world.
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