Domestic violence by the father-in-law → A mother-in-law who forced a pseudo-law to appeal to her mother at the age of 19 (Lee Sook-cam)
Feb 07, 2025
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JTBC 'Departure Camp', which aired on the 6th, revealed the remaining stories of the 8th second couple and the process of convincing the couple to restore their relationship.
The two said they had already divorced once. In fact, they were a couple who reunited. My wife asked me to divorce her first about 10 years ago. There was a lot of conflict and friction with my in-laws. When I was 20, I lived in my in-laws' house as a premarital pregnancy, and it was so hard" he recalled.
The wife said "My father-in-law had domestic violence, and my father-in-law also had a drinking habit that bothered my family." and the husband also nodded "I drank all week and kept him awake until at least 2 or 3 a.m. and fought with my mother if I didn't like it."
The father-in-law even gave his daughter-in-law a hand. My wife even stepped on me because my father suddenly got angry. When I went home, there was a purple bruisesurprised everyone by saying "
The wife said "Mother bullied her with religion as she did. He doesn't do that to others, but he keeps having a church to me." XX religion, known as a cult in Korea. He forced me to believe a lot."
My wife even brought religious people and took my number because she couldn't do it. I wanted to have a wedding before I was full. I thought that was the order. I wanted to wear a wedding dress when I was the prettiest. I wanted to have a free wedding, but didn't your parents stop you from using your sister's excuse?"
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Also, the mother-in-law's atrocities continued to her mother. The wife said "My mother-in-law went crazy with her mother for buying clothes with her son's card. I turned around and found nothing was spent on me, so I bought two clothes worth 200,000 won, and Seo Jang-hoon was frustrated, saying, "It's not that expensive, but what did you say to your mother?"
The wife said "And my mother told me 'XXX, you have to go into a mental hospital'." I was fine then. When I decided to divorce, I hated my in-laws more than my husband. I thought I'd die if I didn't get out of the house," he confessed calmly.
My husband "My family is in trouble. I didn't play a good role in the middle." Eventually, they decided to raise their children at their in-laws' house, and the two divorced. My wife went to my in-laws' house once because she hated my in-laws so much that she really wanted to kill them. But why didn't you open the door?" he cried.
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The husband said "I have nothing to say about the house" and the wife said "My mother told me to just hold it in, but I held it in and became Lee Ji-kyung." Seo Jang-hoon nodded "It all makes sense."
The husband complained to his wife, who was arguing here and there, saying, `So the people around you don't mind.' In response, the wife said, `I didn't hurt myself like you did" During a marital fight, the husband committed self-harm on his own.
Shocking traces of the day. Seo Jang-hoon said, `I thought there was no problem except for sleeping late, but this person has a good problem, too. If you have the courage to hurt yourself, you will protect your wife to your mother and family. Why are you hurting yourself by getting angry when you can't be heard by others?"
Then the wife told the child "Who is the worse XX, mother or father?" but everyone was angry. The wife bowed her head. Then, the angry husband kicked his wife, causing consternation. Seo Jang-hoon pointed out that it was just violence.
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After a night of understanding each other a little, psychological counseling treatment continued. Psychiatrist says `The most serious problem is that my wife is voluntarily groundedIt is pointed out that " and the wife has a great influence when she is young. I want my husband to accept me like my dad" he confessed.
When the wife asks if her husband looks like her father-in-law, "Once in a while. My husband only sleeps when he takes a weekend off, but my father-in-law did that. That's why I'm very angry." The specialist pointed out that he transferred his hatred for his father-in-law to his husband. The wife said "I think there's also revenge for my father-in-law." The specialist makes her act like a father-in-law by gently scratching her husband. You should know how to distinguish between your husband and your father-in-law.
In addition, he still lived in the same neighborhood as his father-in-law, so he didn't go out even more. The specialist says "When these worries get worse, it's delusional. I got out of my father-in-law and father-in-law, but I keep going into the cage myself," he said, recommending getting help from medicine. He was already a wife who was taking medicine, but he was taking medicine that did not work well for him through non-face-to-face treatment.
The wife said "I thought I was bipolar at first, but the doctor said I had a borderline personality disorder. More than half of them seem to be right, and the specialist said "I don't like the diagnosis, but the symptoms are not noticeable"
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