"Husband + mother-in-law affair, husband + relative sister affair".."Something Happens A Lot" Stunned (Golden Counseling Center)
Jul 18, 2024
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Channel A 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which is scheduled to air at 8:10 p.m. today (18th), will be visited by Yang So-young, a veteran divorce lawyer with 24 years of experience, and Yang Na-rae, a rising powerhouse in the divorce lawyer world, with 9 years of experience.
In the broadcast on this day, MC Jeong Hyeong-don asks the two lawyers a mischievous question, saying, "Isn't it checkable for the same divorce lawyers to do broadcasting together?" In response, Yang So-young "I'm the sunset and Yang Narae is the rising sun." Jang Do-yeon in the lawyer world" praised her junior, and Yang Na-rae had ambitions to become a post-side", showing off the affection between the seniors and juniors.
Lawyer Yang So-young and Na-rae Yang said, "'It's hard because of the criticism I get while workingconfess one's unexpected concern that " In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, `It seems that there are many misunderstandings such as whether you make money by dividing others"As the good and bad are not clear, divorce will not only be criticized by everyone involved in the client, but it will also lead to threats beyond criticism. Yang Narae then expressed her fear of retaliation, saying, `Because clients have no choice but to be hostile to the other's lawyer, they leave the court as if they are running away after the trial.' In response, Yang So-young confides in her painful memories of miscarriage due to threats and accusations, saying, `There is a lot of anxiety that someone can harm me at any time.'
Meanwhile, MC Park Na-rae also sympathizes with the professional grievances of a divorce lawyer who is always exposed to threats. Appearing on an entertainment program that reveals daily life, many people come to see Park Na-rae after seeing the location of her exposed house, and confess that Park Na-rae's mother opened the door thinking she was an acquaintance of Park Na-rae. He sympathizes with the anxiety of the two lawyers, complaining that he is in trouble because there are even people who ask him to lend money.
In addition, as a result of checking the MMPI (multi-faceted personality test) of the two men to understand the psychology of the threat that is always in place for the two lawyers, the two men have something in common. Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzes "Both of them have elevated measures of fear." In response, Yang So-young does not answer calls from unknown numbers and says that if her children can't contact her, she thinks of a lot of things. "Once, I even dreamed that someone ran to kill me." In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said "If the fear is high, it can be seen that it is like sending a war-like situation every day.", advises that the cause of fear should be known and the object should be eliminated.
Meanwhile, MC Park Na-rae asks if there are any difficulties related to most divorce lawyers because they think they will experience a lot of affairs. In response, Na-rae Yang recalls the shocking incident she experienced.
He "There was a couple married to an older man. That's why my wife and husband feel a generational difference. The husband complained to his mother-in-law when he had a conflict with his wife. The mother-in-law, who is not much older than her mother-in-law, talked well without generational differences. "Whenever I argued, my wife felt strange about her husband going home, and she saw the affair between her birth mother and her husband at her home, where she chased her husband"It astonishes everyone by revealing the affair that actually took place.
He also said "My wife was the only child. This person had a relative sister, but the relative was also an only child, so they were close like sisters. Even after marriage, she was close to her cousin, and naturally, she often came to the couple's house. Then one day, my wife went out asking me to take care of her child because her relative was so comfortable. The wife, who inadvertently watched the home cam due to her baby's worries, found the baby crying alone and ran home and witnessed the affair between her husband and cousin in the main room. Isn't it the husband's and relative's sister's fault. But my cousin's mother, an aunt, told the victim that she should have taken care of her husband. Why are you two leaving?He claimed ' Not only between the couple, but also cousins and mother's sisters were out of bed. It was too alluvial", adding to the shock by confessing that there are cases in which families are disbanded due to infidelity.
In response, Yang So-young calmly said "There are surprisingly many things like this," and it is said that the family members of the counseling center were shocked.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was listening to the two, expressed concern that if she encounters a lot of traumatic events, she may experience 'proxy trauma syndrome'. In response, it is difficult to hear the client's complaint, but on the day she hears an evidence recording mixed with abusive language, Yang Na-rae confesses her difficulties of empathy, saying, `Even if it's someone else's business, I feel bad as if I've been criticized.' He then recalled a case in which he sobbed at the presiding judge because of his client. Yang Narae said, `My client's age was the same as my mother's, and my daughter's age was the same as mine", he said, and said that the client's trial, which made all the efforts for the family, led to an unfavorable situation contrary to expectations, so he couldn't overcome his upset and sobbed at the presiding judge. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young cautions that when empathizing, you should distinguish between empathy and sympathy, and at the same time, you should think about how to help by taking a step away.
MC Jeong Hyeong-don then asked "Since Yang So-young is a mother of three children, there seems to be a psychological burden on the divorce of a couple with underage children" Yang So-young confesses that in some cases, parents and children are cut off after divorce, so she feels like she wants to prevent divorce and feels a sense of debt that 'Isn't she taking parents away from her children?' In addition, even if a child dies due to child abuse in a remarried family after divorce, "I think it's all my responsibility" adds to the seriousness of the worry. Lawyer Yang So-young then confides that she runs a child support organization and seems to have started to resolve the debt consciousness in her heart.
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young speculates that child support payments seem to feel secure because the boundaries between good and bad are clear, but analyzes that it seems to have increased due to fear because it is more criticized by Bad Father and Bad Mother. Dr. Oh Eun-young said that both lawyers were concerned that the constant fear would make their anxiety chronic and even solved their unspeakable worries by fully analyzing their deep-rooted fears.
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