"Why am I so mean?" Blame → Lee Hyo-ri "Thank you for being born as my daughter"('Mom alone')

Jul 01, 2024

 'Why am I so mean?' Blame → Lee Hyo-ri 'Thank you for being born as my daughter'('Mom alone')



Realizing that Lee Hyo-ri had a different way of dealing with her mother's wounds, she confirmed the meaning of love.

JTBC 'Mom, do you want to go on a trip alone?' depicts Lee Hyo-ri understanding and accepting a woman in the time and life of her mother.

On this day, Lee Hyo-ri closed her heart when her mother refused to talk deeply. After that, he felt that the wounds of the past that remained were not due to the harsh family environment, but resentment toward his mother. He begged his mother why she didn't protect him, and caused another hurt, "'Those I don't love can never hurt me.'"



But the mother and daughter had their own situations. Lee Hyo-ri wanted her mother to take care of her as a child with courage, and her mother was busy taking care of her fierce life in the shadow of her husband at that time. In the end, Lee Hyo-ri left the love and pain of having to watch the weak side of her loved one as resentment.

Lee continued to look into her mind in some way and try to find answers. He realized that there was a problem with his way of talking when he saw his mother tell the boss a lot at the cafe. He showed further growth, saying, `I wanted my mother to listen to small stories, ask questions, and understand.'



Above all, Lee Hyo-ri said, `The secret in my mother's dark box is much blacker than I thought,' adding, `I didn't think it would help her to bring it up just because she wanted to know it," he said. He realized that his mother had also lived with the pain far greater than the pain he had suffered, and began to change again.

Afterwards, Lee Hyo-ri warmed up the awkward atmosphere by going on a jjimjilbang date at her mother's suggestion. Mother and daughter poured out their sincerity in a relaxed atmosphere. Lee Hyo-ri said, "The trip with my mom was cold and hot." She added, "It was long and boring."I accidentally confessed my inner feelings, causing everyone to laugh.



In response, the mother expressed her lifelong conviction that she never said sorry at the beginning of the trip, but eventually apologized for the slip of the tongue and said, `I'm sorry I couldn't give you love, Hyori, I'll give you a lot of love in the future, I look forward to giving you a lot of love.'

In addition, Lee Hyo-ri shed tears in a different meaning than before at her accommodation. The mother was very happy with the appearance of her youngest daughter who made her own bracken pasta. Lee Hyo-ri, who was washing the dishes, said, "It's comfortable to eat what my daughter makes on the phone. The best of the trip, he said, expressing regret when he liked it. Recalling his past indifferent self, he said "Why is he so mean?," he blamed himself and reflected.

Lee Hyo-ri said, "Kisun, let's run away with me, let's go on a trip'" If we go back to the past, she would want to say, "We didn't have any strength, but I think my mom protected me in difficult and difficult years, and I also protected her."" In particular, he felt the appreciation of the existence of a mother rather than communication to relieve the wound.

Lee Hyo-ri, who tried to take out her pain as a child, showed her respect for her mother, who has lived a hard life for decades in a box where no one sees her pain. My mother also always said "Thank you for being born as my daughter".



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