"I've already divorced 3 days before the shooting."All-time NO answer couple → Oh Eun-young, the reason for the right to "Get treatment" to his wife ('Marriage hell')
Aug 13, 2024
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MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which aired on the 12th, featured a husband, 'The Target couple', who came to the point where they could not communicate while fighting with his wife, who claimed that she was having an emotional exchange with an unspecified number of women without understanding and empathizing with her.
The two were legally divorced three days before the filming date, after failing to narrow the conflict and judging well through trial. Dr. Oh Eun-young and MCs who heard this expressed embarrassment that it was strange to file for divorce to find out who was the problem.
The husband confessed that he applied for the story to find out the problem, saying, "I can't understand what the problem of empathy and consideration my wife claims." Even the police came to the scene during the daily filming of the phone call of his wife, who was angry while fighting. The husband makes even those who see him feel sorry for the way he is turned away by his children. What is the truth about the affair surrounding the two.
Her husband's job is to start the day with a strong broom and a truck driver. My husband, who has already been driving a 25-ton truck for four years, worked diligently. On the other hand, his wife showed her best as a career woman who protects from work to home. However, the wife confided that the reason she is not satisfied with her current life is because of her husband, which puzzled the MCs. The wife is expressing sadness that her husband has not understood and sympathized with her feelings so far. He even seems to enjoy his tantrums. On the other hand, the husband said that once he answered his wife's phone call, he had to listen to the story that it was all because of him for three to four hours.
Couples and children who visited the mart to go grocery shopping. The wife, who suddenly stopped walking, shows her irritation with a shaky expression. If there is a woman passing by, you can just pass it, but my wife always stands next to me or gives me a look. MC Soyou-jin, who was listening to this, represented her husband's embarrassed mind, saying, `If you are careful about whether there is a woman or not, you will see more women.' Dr. Oh Eun-young seriously looked at his wife in the video and started writing something. After shopping, the couple's argument continued even in the car on the way back. The wife shouted, saying that her husband's changing the air freshener for the car also seems to be changing it to look good to other women 50m away from the car. In the past, the MCs were speechless when his wife said that she had asked her husband to find the wallet she had dropped in the car, but that she had changed the air freshener, caring about the woman passing by without finding the wallet.
Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzed that his wife has a very controlling side. What she wants from her husband is a fly in the eye to make sure everything is right and right, which means she's extremely emotional. Everyone wants to be considerate, but especially, the wife said the standards are very high, and she was adamant that no one would match her with excessive consideration, not ordinary consideration.
In addition, it was diagnosed that the way the wife expressed her disappointment and demand to her husband was not correct, and that it was a symptom that needed treatment in the part of expressing 'external affair'. Although the husband is not currently unfaithful, he suspects that he is unfaithful and worries that his wife actually feels that way is a clear delusional symptom and a cerebral imbalance.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who made a sincere diagnosis for his wife, considered whether to inform the problem or not, saying that the more he denied that he was delusional, the stronger he became, and it was difficult to treat. However, the wife did not readily accept this fact. Dr. Oh Eun-young added that it is important to recognize that his wife has such a problem, as psychological tests show that she tends to interpret and be certain of other people's intentions in a distorted way.
The husband, who left work, packed food at the market for his wife and children and returned home. When she arrives at the door with food, her husband rings the doorbell and waits for her child to open it. MC So Yoo-jin and Moon Se-yoon could not hide their embarrassment, saying "Do you not know the password for the front gate?" After fighting with her husband, the wife shocked everyone by saying that she often changes her password to prevent her husband from returning home when she doesn't want to face him.
Eventually, when his wife instructed him, the children opened the door while looking around. The husband shows the food he bought at the market and asks his wife to make up, but the wife refuses and drinks in front of the children one after another. The children also turn a blind eye to all her husband's recommendations for food. The food took a back seat, and in the end, the angry wife brought the children to the scene of the fight, even talking about incidents where her husband used violence such as pushing her, throwing bricks, and knocking down the refrigerator in the past.
When Dr. Oh Eun-young saw this, he sighed with anger. In the end, the wife called the police, saying she had to report before a serious situation occurred for fear of her husband's violent tendencies, and the police quickly began to rush into the couple's home. She did not use violence, but her husband, who faced the police, was eventually kicked out of the house four hours after work. After seeing this, MC Park Jimin said, "I came back home after work, and you said to leave all of a sudden"I couldn't hide my sorrow.
When asked by the MCs if there was any incident that revealed violence, the husband said that everything his wife said was correct, causing sincere regret from Dr. Oh Eun-young and the MCs. The children caught between the couple's fights just waited with bated breath for the fight to end.
The children, who watched the fight between the two in front of their eyes, showed a passive attitude while looking at their wife even at the restaurant. When my wife goes to the bathroom, she responds to my dad and starts talking. The husband anxiously said that his wife is not able to control her emotions, so his child gets hurt by being wary of her. Then, the wife surprised everyone in the recording studio by requesting to stop watching during the daily video, saying that her husband was pushing her into a corner. The child, who had been cringing for a long time in the video, told the couple "What are we guilty of?", and MC Park Ji-min, who saw it, was worried that the child would be hurt.
Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out that she knows that the reason her wife came here is to do well for her child, but she still does not understand and sympathize with the children. Just as the wife wants deep sympathy and understanding from her husband, the children will be hoping for the same thing from her, he said, stressing that children should talk and listen so that they can share their minds without looking at the rough mother anymore.
He also mentioned that the problem of drinking in front of children should be fixed. In addition, he stressed that he should protect his family and face problems as a father, pointing out that he has avoided his husband even though he knows he has a problem so far. In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-young warned that the couple is very easy to think about public power and public goods. He emphasized that it is very dangerous to call the police frequently to kick out the husband due to marital discord, not serious domestic violence.
Dr. Oh Eun-young recommended that his wife, who cannot easily accept the diagnosis, visit the hospital voluntarily and voluntarily for treatment. It is certainly a matter of great concern as a specialist to say definitively that he is extramaritalizing beyond doubting his husband, and he said that he will be able to control his mind through various treatments and counseling treatments.
He also emphasized that no matter how much anger your husband causes, you should not solve your emotions with alcohol. And before speaking of his wife's own pain, he said that as a mother, he would focus more on his children's sincere hearts and thoughts. I recommended my husband to actively respond to the improvement of the problem, saying that being nice is not everything good. Emotional exchange is a very important issue for my wife, and he emphasized that trying to avoid it as it is now makes her more angry and aggravates the situation, so I will try to help children see and learn.
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