My husband who's been staying in his room for six years to avoid a fight with his wife..Oh Eun-young "Husband, I'm being ignored." What You'll Feel" Analysis (Marriage Hell)
Oct 08, 2024
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MBC's Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell, which aired yesterday (7th), ranked first in 2049 ratings in all programs except news. According to viewer rating agency Nielsen Korea, Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell, which aired yesterday, recorded 1.5% of the 2049 ratings, a major indicator of advertisers and a measure of channel competitiveness, the highest number of programs aired yesterday except for news. In addition, in the scene where Dr. Oh Eun-young consulted with the couple, he achieved the highest viewer rating of 4.0% per minute.
In MBC's Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell, which aired at 10:45 p.m. yesterday (7th), a husband who has been living in a room for six years because he doesn't like his wife's cold eyes and neglect, and a wife who turns away from her husband because she thinks she shouldn't touch her angry husband. Due to the marital conflict, a 'quarantine couple' who are socially distancing at home has emerged. Before the couple's appearance, MC Park Ji-min asked Dr. Oh Eun-young and other MCs 'Which is the worst breakup, a diving breakup or a transit breakup?' In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young chooses a transfer break-up saying, "'Transfer break-up makes you feel betrayed', and MC So-jin chooses 'submersible break-up', and falls underground while contemplating whether the submersible break-up is my fault," he said, evoking sympathy from viewers.
Meanwhile, 'quarantine couple' who appeared on this day came to
▶The husband who goes into the room because he doesn't want to ignore his wife → The wife who avoids because she is afraid of her husband's anger...the confines of an unresolvable conflict...What is Dr. Oh Eun-young's solution???
- Husband living in Bangkok without air conditioning despite 31℃ heat... MC Park Ji-min, "This is the life when you get COVID-19!" Shocking!
- "You have to live apart to know how precious I am!Husband who signed a one-room contract saying " But you didn't go into the studio? Why?
- Husband's mood = angle of visit! If the door is closed, does that mean my husband is angry? Wife saying she can't knock on the door because she's afraid her husband will get angry...?
- Dr. Oh Eun-young, "The mind is not understood by the head, but what it feels"
This summer, when the heat wave was raging day after day. Despite the hot room of more than 31 degrees Celsius, the husband was living in a so-called 'Bangkok' that did not come out of the room. The husband closes the door tightly and spends his daily life isolated from his family without time for the air conditioner in the living room to come in. As if she was familiar with her husband's quarantine life, her wife and two sons naturally set up a three-person table excluding her husband when preparing breakfast. The wife asked the children during the meal if their father's visit was open. However, his wife showed consciousness of her husband by lowering her voice as much as possible and talking with a receiver even in a simple conversation. As my wife says, "My husband is going to explode at some point, so I keep my voice down." The MCs say, "I have to enjoy my meal, but it looks so uncomfortable." Eating time is the most conversational time...," he lamented. The wife then explained that she could determine the degree of her husband's anger according to the 'open angle', and that she was angry if the husband's visit was closed, not angry if it was open 5°-10°, worried about coming out if it was open 25°, and told him to call her to eat if it was open 45°. When the wife saw her husband in the room like this, she expressed her sorrow, saying, `How much do I hate it, how much would I do that?' However, the husband avoids it because he hates his wife's blunt expression and non-gazing gaze when he's not on good terms with her," he said, expressing his contradiction with his wife's position. Then, when I wake up in the morning, there is no one, and when I am alone at home, I feel that I do not need it at home with a great sense of alienation from my family. MC Kim Eung-soo, who saw her husband's position that forced her to lock herself in the room, sympathized with the weight and loneliness of the head of the household, saying, `I have a similar experience even if I don't say it, I understand the heart of my husband who drives me pessimistically.'
However, it was even more shocking to hear that the husband had once found a private room for a studio apart from the quarantine in the house 'Bangkok Life'. In the past, the wife faced a lot of things at home due to her husband's leave. At the time, the husband told his wife "I'm angry when I see your face" and "Don't you think my family will know how precious I am if I live apart?" However, the studio was confused by the fact that the husband lived in his existing house even after finding a rented room. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out that 'How hard it was for a husband to get a lease on a deposit basis ' should be considered. The husband must have wanted his wife to prevent him from taking out a lease on a deposit basis, and the husband also admitted to Dr. Oh Eun-young's words. In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzed the two people's rental house case, saying, `It's not a matter of judging anyone's fault when you look at the two of them, their tendencies are very different.' Dr. Oh Eun-young explained that his wife is 'If a situation arises, someone who focuses on solving and better choices, and needs understanding. He then pointed out that the wife is trying to understand the heart with her head, and that the heart is felt. Compared to his wife, he said that it would have been difficult to explain to his wife, who values emotions and understands the shapeless mind with her head, and advised that it would be important for the two to understand each other's difficulties.
▶ The psychiatric medication helped me feel better vs. the underlying problem can't be solved by you, the psychologist! a tense confrontation between a couple
- No conversation until the last day of daily observation... Couples cut off communication due to quarantine life, conversation broke out when the topic was created 'I hope you get psychiatric treatment vs. No reason to get it'
- MC Park Ji-min, "They both want to be together…" I feel sorry for the mixed feelings of the couple ↑
- `As long as I leave the room, I will be able to go back as I used to be.' The wife's earnest appeal to her husband, who has been living in Bangkok for six years
- The reason my husband was sensitive to Ignore... nothing but 'school violence'
According to the production team, 'quarantine couple' could not find a scene where the couple talked until the last day of the daily observation shoot due to their extreme life in each room. However, on the last day of filming, when the topic of conversation came out between the two while the production team was delivering the message to the couple, the couple exchanged tense opinions. Two people who had a conversation about 'husband's psychiatric treatment' which had not been resolved for a long time. The wife recommended psychiatric treatment because her husband was so emotional. "After taking the prescribed medicine for about two months, it didn't make a fuss about it. "" But my husband said, "It's not because of the medicine, it's because he recognized himself and refrained from it. " In addition, the husband felt frustrated because the conflict between the couple had problems with each other, and the wife thought that the cause of the conflict was only accepted by the husband's poor mental health. My husband even started talking about divorce because he felt ignored by his wife, who didn't even pretend to know him even after seeing his face. However, the two were constantly divided, saying that the wife could only speak her husband's heart, but she was angry and could no longer knock on her husband's visit.
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young explained to her husband that `The wife did not mean that her husband was severely ill, but that she chose the most effective method out of concern for her husband.' He also accurately conveyed each other's position to his wife, saying, `The difficulty of the husband's emotional ups and downs is that he does not know how I feel, so it is a problem to be solved with his wife.' Then, Dr. Oh Eun-young said "We are talking about the right things, but if we look at them with different standards, we feel that the other person is wrong." In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-young, who watched her husband closely throughout the consultation, said, `My husband is particularly sensitive to being 'ignored', and he feels that way, not that way.' In response, the husband confessed that he had been subjected to school violence in the past. Dr. Oh Eun-young understood her husband's school days, which must have been difficult, and emphasized once again that his wife did not ignore him, and that he did not hate his wife. Meanwhile, in the second half of the broadcast, the couple's eldest son was shown knocking on the door in Dr. Oh Eun-young's waiting room, saying he was curious about what to do to resolve the conflict between his parents. Dr. Oh Eun-young added warmth to the viewers' hearts by sincerely answering to the sudden visit, saying, `Express your parents sincerely.'
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