Abortion Failed, If You Were Dumped by a Car...I think my depressed son became human trash because of my mother's rude talk (Oh Eun-young Report)
Jan 07, 2025
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MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which aired on the 6th, was held for four weeks as a family counseling special for the new year of 2025.
On this day, the first protagonist of family counseling appeared. The main character of the story was a son who said his childhood past was all dark and a mother who said she doesn't remember any of the past like a blank sheet of paper.
The son said what he heard from his mother in the past bothers him until he turned 34. The son, who always lives in tension due to trauma and avoids relationships with people, confessed that with his mother, he would not only be negative in his life, but also feel fear. Even the pre-meeting was so afraid to face my mom that I canceled my application to appear on the production team's notice that I was with her.
However, the mother claimed that she did not remember her son's harsh words in the past, and that she raised her child alone after the divorce and cared more than others and did her best. The mother's position was that her son was not only talented in many ways, but he was especially good at studying, so that he maintained his top grades without private education and raised his mother's shoulders.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was closely watching his son's behavior, said his son's depression index is the highest among the cast members he has seen in two years. While the son continued to show restlessness when talking about reminiscence in the past and was nervous even with light jokes, the mother said she did not remember what she said, drawing attention to whether the two could narrow their differences.
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As soon as it arrived, the light was not turned on, and the only window where the light came in was covered with blackout stickers. As if to represent his son's heart, the house was achromatic and there was no sunlight.
The son, who seems familiar and spends time watching the drama sitting in front of a computer monitor, suddenly looked stiff when he was seen talking with his family in the drama. In the end, he lowered his head and sobbed. In the conversation of the family members in the drama, he was breathing heavily, perhaps thinking of his mother, and showed difficulty controlling his emotions.
The son, who said he had lived listening to his mother's harsh criticism since he was in the fourth grade of elementary school, said he was very shocked to see the writing in his mother's diary that he had failed and had a child. At the same time, he claimed that his mother often spoke rudely to him when she was having a hard time. Still, he confessed that he tried to be better to his mother, but after his mother poured out abusive language on the day of the college entrance exam, he began to keep away from her.
The son said he wanted to study hard and relieve his mother's worries because he knew her mother's hard work to raise him alone from a young age. However, on the day of the College Scholastic Ability Test, he said, "I didn't perform as well as I normally do." He also said that he was sorry that he seemed to have failed his mother's expectations rather than disappointed himself.
But the mother is not shy to see her relatives because of you. Go out and get hit by a car." The MCs responded in disbelief to the shocking remarks. The son said he even blocked his mother's contact information due to repeated verbal abuse.
But the mother, who was listening to her son's story, said she didn't remember the day of the college entrance exam either. Dr. Oh Eun-young explained that much of her son's wounds were her mother's rude talk. This hurt me a lot, but because I love my mother more, my son, who lived his life according to his mother, should be a better son because he knows his mother's hard life' explained that he must have thought strongly.
For such a son, he said that the CSAT would have served as a day to prove his existence in order to be recognized as a useful and valuable person. From the standpoint of his son, who was in pain enough to want to die because of the verbal abuse, he said that if his mother kept saying that he couldn't remember, he might have thought it was a problem that he didn't take it seriously.
The son decided to meet his mother and talk to her after 9 months at the recommendation of his cousin. The mother, who always looked dark, smiled brightly for the first time at the news of her son coming home. However, as soon as he arrived, his son entered his room as if he did not recognize his mother's feelings. He prepared a feast for his son's visit after a long time, but he refused to eat, and in the end, he couldn't win and said he would take a step closer to his mother's earnest request.
My mother secretly wiped away tears and prepared the meal because of the complex and subtle feelings that were both happy and sad. Even now, he said he wanted to restore his relationship with his son, and he talked to him first to relieve the awkward atmosphere. The mother's words "Think of only the happy things first" suddenly changed the son's expression coldly. The son said he was sad to his mother, recalling the past when he was not happy.
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When his son started friction with his mother over travel, his past wounds came to mind and he even had extreme thoughts. I even told my mom that I went to the Han River Bridge and tried to put my extreme thoughts into practice, but she said her reaction was only cold. Desperate, "Is 1 million won more wasteful than my life to cancel the accommodation?", but 'yes' once again revealed that he felt hopeless by his mother's answer.
Mom said she thought she was intimidated by the sudden talk of life. He kept expressing his disappointment at his son, who didn't know how he must have been scared. I felt that my son's contact, who said he wanted to die on the Han River bridge, was bothering me." The more the two talked, the more they grew apart, and the nine-month conversation ended in catastrophe. The son also despaired once again.
an ambitious dawn at which everyone sleeps. The son found his mother's handwritten letter. Mom put out her hand once again. But as I read my mother's letter, I held my breath in the dark and began to cry. "Is this an apple?He left home at 2 a.m. with all his luggage, leaving only the words ".
The son had the courage to come to his mother's house in nine months to make up with his mother, but when he saw the phrase "Mom is new, please understand it," he said, and only his mother's position was written, not an apology, so he felt like he was finally handing over the responsibility to himself.
Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzed that he must have felt that he was `emphasizing the legitimacy of his mother by saying that she was the first one.' The phrase 'Mental independence, health protection' on the back of the letter must have felt more like a demand for his son than a word of concern. I understand the emphasis on justification for raising my son hard alone, but he advised that it is more important to know the wounds inside and empathize with his feelings than justification in relationships with his son.
At the end of the interview, the son expressed his honest feelings, saying, `I want to cut off contact, but in fact, I can't without my mother.' He hated his mother, but he was also worried that he might be criticized for the broadcast. The mother also said that she felt sorry that her son was having a hard time living because of her. As a result, Dr. Oh Eun-young and MCs were moved by the sincerity of the mother and son that touched each other and shed hot tears.
In next week's trailer, which was released at the end of the broadcast, the second story of the "family special" was drawn with 'Mother and Daughter Conflict' following 'Mother Conflict'. It is a story of a mother who is tired of her daughter's sensitivity that has persisted since she was five years old and a daughter who has a secret that she could not tell her family.
The mother told her daughter that the atmosphere in the house had rapidly cooled down more than once due to her first daughter's words, and she told her daughter, "I honestly don't want to see it."." On the other hand, the first daughter said she was disappointed by her family members who did not understand her pain. Attention is paid to what happened to this family.
MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Family Special' will air on Monday, Jan. 13 at 10:45 p.m.
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